This is my world. Anything between these lines is mine, so I’ve decided to let something off of my chest. I have issue with the people who decide to judge based on no actual proof, merely speculation. This will always exist. I know that. But the issue that I have with this is the fact that you are grown people. If a child were to make an assessment based of purely speculative reasoning, no one is going to really bat an eyelash at that because we all understand that they are not fully developed yet and so they are missing important components within the realm of understanding and breaking down situations. But if you’re an adult and know someone for a long enough time that you can make an assessment on that person’s intentions and then something, completely opposite comes out of the blue, that doesn’t reflect the person’s character, what do you do? Do you mention it to the person or do you decide to keep quiet about it and still entertain this person’s company? All the while, you’re scrutinizing their behavior, verifying if what you found out is in direct correlation with the actions that you now have under a microscope. THAT, is bullshit. Flat out. We are grown people. We have been through so many different situations and we have been privy to information about so many different situations that I have no respect for that lack of interpersonal respect. Open your mouth and establish the issue that you have with the person you have the issue with. All of this “muttering behind their backs” stuff is infantile and your card should be pulled on that. ESPECIALLY if it’s someone you know well enough to speak to about the situation.
And if you do pull that shit and expect that things are going to get back to the way they were…man…I don’t even know where to start on that, so I’ll quit while I’m ahead.
All this to say, I’m DONE with this stuff. When I am around you, show me the respect that I show you. I don’t disrespect anyone. I love people. Love talking to them, love interacting with them, love it all, but don’t disrespect me. No threats. You are not going to receive a night’s worth of vitriol, it would serve no purpose but enough with the innuendo’s. I’ve had it up to here with scheming ass people. This life is being lived on MY TERMS. Not yours. If you don’t like what I do, write me a letter. Send me an email. Call my phone. Don’t speculate because you’ll look like the idiot that you aren’t.
On that note, have a great day.